Fondly remembering Ash: he was both a wonderful son and an amazing man who truly embodied the sentiments expressed by Rudyard Kipling in this eternally inspiring poem. If (by Rudyard Kipling) If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too: If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise; If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim, If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same: If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools; If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss: If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew ⁠To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!' If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, ⁠If all men count with you, but none too much: If you can fill the unforgiving minute ⁠With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And—which is more—you'll be a Man, my son!

Ashwyn was a lovely gentleman who was also visionary. He had a beautiful heart full of love, compassion and kindness. The short time I’ve known him showed me how much of a great man he was and would’ve been in the future and how much he’d have helped the society as a whole. He thought me a lot and lightened up my life with some brilliant ideas. It’s a shame to lose a wonderful man like him. He will be dearly missed but most importantly, remembered.

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